What Causes Sunday Night Insomnia and What Can Help?

By Brandon Peters, MD

It’s been a great weekend and now it’s time to settle into bed to get a good night of sleep before the busy week ahead. After waiting for a few minutes, you start to get a little anxious: you aren’t falling asleep. You start to worry about your function the next day. Then you realize that trouble falling asleep seems to occur every Sunday night. What causes Sunday night insomnia? Learn about some of the contributing factors, including sleeping in, taking naps, caffeine or alcohol use, and anxiety about the week ahead. By identifying and resolving some of the causes, you can finally get to sleep on Sunday nights easily without feeling dread for Monday morning.

Anticipating the Week of Ahead May Provoke Anxiety

What makes Sunday night so special? Of all the nights of the week, it seems to be mostly commonly associated with difficulty falling asleep that characterizes insomnia. Insomnia is defined as trouble falling or staying asleep. When it takes more than 20 to 30 minutes to drift off, this may be a sign of a problem.

There are lots of potential causes of insomnia. When it occurs, anxiety may make it worse. Pressure to fall asleep, or even the slightest focus on it, makes it nearly impossible to doze off. Sunday night may be the time that you start to think about the week ahead. If you hate your job, or if it is stressful, you may approach the week with dread. You might think about the coworkers who drive you crazy. You might ruminate on the projects that seem overwhelming. You might ponder the biggest stressors that you face in the week ahead. None of these thoughts will be conducive to falling asleep.

It may be helpful to use scheduled worry time or relaxation techniques to relieve this stress. You may be able to distract yourself from these thoughts, and fall asleep more easily. If you have persistent anxiety, you may need further help with the use of medication or psychotherapy from a counselor.

Weekend Sleep Patterns May Worsen Sleep Initiation

There is also good evidence that changes in the sleep patterns of the weekend may make it harder to fall asleep on Sunday night. It is very common to be sleep deprived during the week. You may get to bed too late or you may have to wake early. Getting the children ready for school, or making the commute to work, may prompt an earlier wake time. You may get to bed to late due to projects that delay your bedtime. As a result, you may note meet your individual sleep needs during the week. Each night, you may short yourself a little. Night after night, your desire for sleep grows stronger. When Saturday morning rolls around, you may sleep in. You “catch up” on lost sleep and pay off the accumulated sleep debt. If you don’t get up early Sunday morning, the same indulgence may recur. How does this impact sleep?

Our sleep is enhanced through two processes: homeostatic sleep drive and circadian rhythm. The sleep drive is the desire for sleep that builds the longer we stay awake. If you were to stay awake for 30 hours, at the end of 30 hours you would be very sleepy, and fall asleep very quickly. You would probably sleep longer and deeper than you normally would. All wakefulness builds this desire for sleep. Conversely, if you sleep, you diminish the sleep drive. By sleeping in, there is a delay in starting to build the desire for sleep. It is almost like going to bed early. If you sleep in 2 or 3 hours on the weekend, it’s like going to bed that much earlier. If your bedtime is normally at 11 PM, but you crawl into bed at 8 PM, is it any wonder that you can’t fall asleep?

Another contribution to poor sleep on Sunday night is our circadian rhythm. We have a natural tendency toward sleep that is synchronized to the day-night patterns of light and darkness. This is reinforced by our genetics as well as morning light exposure. By delaying the wake time, and getting light to our suprachiasmatic nucleus in the brain a little later, the pattern shifts. It makes it harder for us to wake up and harder for us to fall asleep.

Our bodies respond best to regular patterns, and this includes the pattern of sleep and wakefulness. Keep a regular wake time (with an alarm, if needed), even on the weekends. Go to bed when you feel sleepy, but try to get 7 to 8 hours of sleep through the week to meet your sleep needs. Try to avoid catching up on sleep on the weekend; get enough sleep every night to feel rested.

Afternoon Naps May Diminish Your Ability to Fall Asleep

Weekends are when we can most easily indulge in a nap. Though these don’t usually occur in the morning, they may frequently interrupt the afternoon. Imagine how often you have seen someone dozing on a lazy Sunday afternoon! Sports, movies, and reading seem perfectly paired for dozing on the weekends. Unfortunately, naps can diminish the drive for sleep.

Try to avoid taking prolonged naps, especially if you have difficulty falling asleep at night. Naps lasting 2 hours or more are especially problematic. (These naps may also be sign of a sleep disorder, such as sleep apnea.) As much as possible limit naps to shorter periods, perhaps 15 to 20 minutes. These can be refreshing, without impacting sleep at night. In addition, try to time the naps to mid-afternoon and avoid sleeping in the late afternoon or evening. Falling asleep in the hours before bedtime will make it especially difficult to get to sleep.

If your insomnia is especially entrenched, cut out the naps completely until your sleep improves.

Selecting a Bedtime and Going to Bed Sleepy

As noted above, try to keep a regular sleep schedule, including week nights and weekend nights. By going to bed at the same time every night, you will fall asleep more easily. It is also important to listen to your body and go to bed when you are feeling sleepy.

Sleepiness or drowsiness is different that fatigue, tiredness, or exhaustion. One can feel exhausted, and not fall asleep. Sleepiness is the strong desire for sleep that immediately precedes its onset. It may be associated with heavy eyelids, a warm sensation in the body, and loss of focus in vision.

Go to bed when you feel sleepy, including on the weekends. Don’t choose an optimistic bedtime based on when you would like to fall asleep. If you need to adjust your schedule, it is actually easier to change your wake time with an alarm. Subsequently adjust your bedtime earlier to correspond with when you are feeling sleepy. Insomnia is more likely to occur if you crawl into bed too early to get enough sleep to start your week.

If you are not falling asleep, observe stimulus control. Get up after 15 minutes, do something else relaxing, and come back to bed when you are feeling more sleepy.

Decreased Physical Activity and Consumption of Alcohol and Caffeine

There are other things that can impact your ability to fall asleep. These include changes in physical activity and the varying consumption of alcohol and caffeine.

Some people have very physical jobs. The weekends might be their opportunity to recover and rest. Decreased physical activity, including exercise, on the weekend may make it heard to fall asleep. As much as possible, try to maintain similar levels of exercise on the weekend (or even increase them, if possible).

Alcohol may enhance adenosine levels and increase the desire for sleep. Unfortunately, it is metabolized very quickly. The levels drop, and the desire for sleep disappears. Avoid alcohol intake in the hours before bedtime. Importantly, do not use alcohol as a nightcap.

Caffeine consumption can also impair our ability to sleep. Some people are very sensitive, and caffeine found in coffee, tea, soda pop, energy drinks, or chocolate should be avoided after noon. In others, reducing intake after mid-afternoon may be sufficient. If you have insomnia, try eliminating late consumption of caffeine to learn if it is impacting you.

Final Considerations for Sunday Night Insomnia

When difficulty falling asleep persists, consider other potential causes of Sunday night insomnia. Are you reluctant to go to bed because it means ending the weekend? Are you avoiding the stress of the work week? Is it time to make serious changes in your life to relieve stress?

If your insomnia persists, consider speaking with a sleep specialist about treatment options that may be helpful, including cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBTI). In rare cases, the use a sleeping pill on Sunday nights may be helpful.

You can sleep normally, even on Sunday nights.

Helping a New Kindergartener Adjust Their Sleep Routine

Starting kindergarten is a big milestone — not just for the child, but for the whole family. The excitement, new schedule, and increased demands on attention and energy all mean one thing: sleep becomes more important than ever. Unfortunately, getting a young child to bed on time (and helping them stay rested) can be a challenge, especially if they’ve been on a looser summer schedule.

The good news is that with some planning and consistency, you can help your kindergartener adjust to their new sleep routine without too many tears — yours or theirs.

Why Sleep Matters More Than Ever

Five- and six-year-olds need 10–13 hours of sleep in every 24-hour period, according to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. That means if your child needs to wake up at 7:00 a.m. for school, their bedtime should ideally be somewhere between 6:30 and 8:00 p.m.

Adequate sleep at this age is linked to:

• Better mood regulation (fewer meltdowns)

• Improved attention and memory

• Stronger immune function

• Better coordination and motor skills

• More resilience in handling new challenges

The first weeks of kindergarten can be especially tiring. Your child is learning routines, meeting new people, and processing a huge amount of new information. Sleep is when their brains and bodies recharge — and without enough of it, their ability to adjust and thrive can suffer.

Step 1: Start the Adjustment Early

If your child has been going to bed later during the summer, don’t wait until the night before school starts to make changes. Begin adjusting bedtime and wake-up time about 2–3 weeks before the first day of kindergarten.

Move bedtime earlier by 10–15 minutes every few nights, and wake them up earlier in the morning by the same increment. Gradually shifting helps their body clock adjust without a huge shock.

Step 2: Create a Predictable Bedtime Routine

Young children thrive on structure, and a predictable bedtime routine signals to their body and brain that it’s time to wind down. Aim for a 30–45 minute routine that might look like this:

1. Bath or shower — warm water helps lower body temperature afterward, which can promote sleepiness.

2. Pajamas and tooth brushing — keep it consistent every night.

3. Quiet time — reading a book together or listening to calm music.

4. Lights out — ideally in a dim, quiet room.

Avoid high-energy activities and bright lights in the hour before bedtime. That means no roughhousing, TV shows, or tablets right before sleep. The blue light from screens can delay melatonin production, making it harder for kids to fall asleep.

Step 3: Make the Bedroom Sleep-Friendly

Kindergarteners, like adults, sleep better in an environment that’s comfortable and free from distractions.

• Keep it cool: A room temperature between 65–70°F (18–21°C) is ideal.

• Dim the lights: Darkness signals the brain to release melatonin. A small nightlight is fine if your child prefers it.

• Limit noise: White noise machines can help block out household or street sounds.

• Choose comfortable bedding: Involve your child in picking sheets or a blanket they love — it makes bedtime more inviting.

Step 4: Watch the Afternoon Schedule

Once school starts, you may notice your child is more tired than usual in the afternoons. Some kindergarteners still need a short nap, especially during the early weeks. However, a late afternoon nap can push bedtime later, so try to limit naps to before 3:00 p.m.

If they’re not napping, build in quiet time after school — reading, drawing, or playing calmly in their room — to give them a mental and physical break before the rest of the day.

Step 5: Be Consistent on Weekends

It’s tempting to let bedtime slide on Friday or Saturday nights, but big swings in schedule can make Monday mornings much harder. Try to keep bedtime and wake-up time within an hour of the weekday schedule, even on weekends.

Step 6: Handle Bedtime Resistance Gently but Firmly

Some kids may resist the earlier bedtime, especially if they’re used to staying up later. Stay calm, stay consistent, and remember that part of your job is to set boundaries that protect their health.

• Acknowledge feelings: “I know you don’t feel tired yet, but your body needs rest so you can have fun at school tomorrow.”

• Offer choices within structure: “Do you want to read one book or two before lights out?”

• Stick to the routine: Consistency builds habits faster than constant negotiation.

Step 7: Watch for Signs of Sleep Deprivation

Even with a good plan, some children may struggle to get enough sleep at first. Watch for signs such as:

• Morning irritability or crying

• Difficulty waking up

• Meltdowns over small frustrations

• Clumsiness or more frequent accidents

• Trouble focusing during play or homework

If you notice these signs regularly, try moving bedtime even earlier. It’s not unusual for some kindergarteners to need a 7:00 p.m. bedtime, especially in the first few months of school.

Step 8: Stay Flexible and Supportive

Every child is different. Some adjust within a week, while others may take a month or more to settle into a new sleep pattern. Life events, growth spurts, and illness can all cause temporary setbacks.

The key is to treat sleep as a non-negotiable priority, while also giving your child space to adapt at their own pace. Celebrate small wins — like falling asleep without calling for you — and keep reinforcing the idea that sleep helps them be their best.

The Long-Term Payoff

Helping your kindergartener adjust to a healthy sleep routine is one of the best back-to-school gifts you can give them. Not only will it make their days happier and more productive, but it will also lay the foundation for lifelong sleep habits that support health, learning, and emotional well-being.

A well-rested child is better equipped to meet the exciting challenges of school — from making new friends to learning to read — with energy and joy. And as a parent, you’ll have more peace of mind knowing you’ve set them up for success, one bedtime story at a time.

This article was created using OpenAI’s ChatGPT on August 15, 2025 and it was personally reviewed and edited by Brandon Peters, M.D. to ensure its accuracy. This use of augmented intelligence in this way allows the creation of health information that can be trusted.

Stressed Out? Take a Nap: The Power of Rest for Stress Relief

In today’s fast-paced world, stress has become a common part of life. From work pressures to personal responsibilities, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. While there are numerous ways to manage stress, one often-overlooked solution is taking a nap. Yes, a simple nap! Far from being a luxury or a sign of laziness, napping can be an effective tool for reducing stress, boosting mental clarity, and improving overall well-being.

In this article, we will explore the science behind stress, how it impacts our bodies and minds, and why taking a nap can be one of the best strategies for dealing with it.

The Science of Stress

Stress is a natural physiological response to situations that require action, problem-solving, or adaptation. When we perceive a threat—whether real or imagined—the body activates its "fight-or-flight" response. This triggers the release of stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline, which prepare the body to confront the challenge. While this response is helpful in short bursts, chronic or prolonged stress can have harmful effects on both our physical and mental health.

The Impact of Chronic Stress

Chronic stress can lead to a wide range of health problems, including:

• Mental health issues: Anxiety, depression, and irritability often arise from ongoing stress.

• Physical health problems: Prolonged stress is linked to high blood pressure, heart disease, digestive problems, and a weakened immune system.

• Sleep disturbances: Stress often interferes with sleep, making it harder to fall asleep or stay asleep, leading to a vicious cycle of exhaustion and heightened stress.

One of the key ways to combat stress is by breaking this cycle and allowing the body to relax. And that’s where napping comes in.

How Napping Helps with Stress Relief

While you might associate napping with laziness or indulgence, research shows that taking a nap—especially during periods of high stress—can have profound benefits for both mind and body.

1. Naps Restore the Body’s Stress Response

When we're stressed, our body’s stress response is constantly activated. A nap, especially one that lasts between 20 and 30 minutes, can help deactivate this response and allow the body to relax. Short naps can lower cortisol levels, the hormone that’s primarily responsible for stress. By taking a break and resting, the body has a chance to recover from the constant release of stress hormones.

In fact, research has shown that even a short nap can significantly reduce cortisol levels. This can actively counter the physical effects of stress and promote relaxation.

2. Improved Cognitive Function and Mood

Stress can impair our ability to think clearly, concentrate, and make decisions. When we're under stress, our cognitive functions—such as memory, attention, and problem-solving—become compromised. Napping provides the brain with a brief opportunity to "reset." This is because sleep is essential for memory consolidation and cognitive processing.

Studies have shown that even a short nap of 20 minutes can improve alertness, focus, and decision-making abilities. As a result, a nap can help restore mental clarity, making it easier to handle stressors and solve problems more effectively.

In addition to cognitive benefits, napping can also improve mood. Sleep deprivation, which often accompanies stress, is known to contribute to irritability, anxiety, and even depression. A well-timed nap can lift your mood and help you feel more emotionally balanced, making it easier to approach challenges with a calmer mindset.

3. Naps Restore Energy and Prevent Burnout

When you’re stressed, your energy levels can quickly deplete. Chronic stress often leads to fatigue and exhaustion, leaving you feeling drained and unable to function at your best. A nap provides the body with the chance to recharge its energy reserves.

Taking a short nap can help restore alertness and improve overall energy levels. Research suggests that naps of 20 to 30 minutes are the most effective for this purpose, as they allow the body to enter the lighter stages of sleep without causing grogginess. This nap duration is long enough to boost energy but short enough to avoid interfering with nighttime sleep.

Without sufficient rest, the body and mind can become overwhelmed, which increases the risk of burnout. Napping serves as a preventive measure, helping you stay refreshed and resilient throughout the day. If you're feeling fatigued due to stress, a quick nap can be the perfect solution to maintain your productivity and emotional well-being.

4. Napping Improves Sleep Quality at Night

Although it may seem counterintuitive, taking a nap during the day can actually improve your sleep quality at night. When you're under stress, you may have trouble falling asleep or staying asleep, which exacerbates feelings of fatigue and stress. By napping during the day, you can alleviate some of this sleep debt, making it easier to fall asleep at night.

However, it's important to be mindful of the timing and length of your nap. Napping too late in the day or for too long can interfere with your ability to fall asleep at night. Aim for a nap earlier in the afternoon, around 1 PM to 3 PM, when your body’s natural energy levels tend to dip. Limiting your nap to 20-30 minutes can also help you feel rejuvenated without disrupting your nighttime sleep.

5. Naps Help Lower Blood Pressure and Improve Heart Health

Chronic stress is a significant risk factor for cardiovascular diseases, as it can contribute to high blood pressure, inflammation, and other heart-related issues. Taking regular naps has been shown to have a positive effect on heart health.

The study found that individuals who napped regularly had a lower risk of death from heart disease. Naps, especially when combined with relaxation techniques like deep breathing, can lower blood pressure and reduce the strain on the heart. This is yet another way that naps help mitigate the physical consequences of stress.

Best Practices for Napping

While napping can be incredibly beneficial, it’s important to follow certain guidelines to maximize its effectiveness:

• Keep it short: Aim for naps of 20 to 30 minutes. This duration is long enough to refresh your body and mind without leaving you feeling groggy.

• Timing is key: Nap during the afternoon, typically between 1 PM and 3 PM. This is when your body’s natural circadian rhythm experiences a dip in energy, making it the ideal time for a short rest.

• Create a restful environment: Find a quiet, comfortable place where you can relax without distractions. Consider using a sleep mask or blackout curtains if you’re napping during the day.

• Avoid napping too late: Napping too late in the day can interfere with your nighttime sleep. Aim to nap earlier in the afternoon to avoid disrupting your sleep cycle.

Conclusion

Stress is a pervasive issue that can take a serious toll on both our physical and mental health. While there are many strategies for managing stress, one simple and effective tool is often overlooked: taking a nap. Napping can reduce cortisol levels, improve cognitive function and mood, restore energy, and even improve sleep quality at night. By incorporating short naps into your routine, you can break the stress cycle, prevent burnout, and boost your overall well-being.

So the next time you're feeling overwhelmed by stress, don’t underestimate the power of a quick nap. A few minutes of rest could be exactly what you need to reset, recharge, and tackle the challenges ahead.

This article was created using OpenAI’s ChatGPT on December 2, 2024 and it was personally reviewed and edited by Brandon Peters, M.D. to ensure its accuracy. This use of augmented intelligence in this way allows the creation of health information that can be trusted.