Starting kindergarten is a big milestone — not just for the child, but for the whole family. The excitement, new schedule, and increased demands on attention and energy all mean one thing: sleep becomes more important than ever. Unfortunately, getting a young child to bed on time (and helping them stay rested) can be a challenge, especially if they’ve been on a looser summer schedule.

The good news is that with some planning and consistency, you can help your kindergartener adjust to their new sleep routine without too many tears — yours or theirs.

Why Sleep Matters More Than Ever

Five- and six-year-olds need 10–13 hours of sleep in every 24-hour period, according to the American Academy of Sleep Medicine. That means if your child needs to wake up at 7:00 a.m. for school, their bedtime should ideally be somewhere between 6:30 and 8:00 p.m.

Adequate sleep at this age is linked to:

Better mood regulation (fewer meltdowns)
Improved attention and memory
Stronger immune function
Better coordination and motor skills
More resilience in handling new challenges

The first weeks of kindergarten can be especially tiring. Your child is learning routines, meeting new people, and processing a huge amount of new information. Sleep is when their brains and bodies recharge — and without enough of it, their ability to adjust and thrive can suffer.

Step 1: Start the Adjustment Early

If your child has been going to bed later during the summer, don’t wait until the night before school starts to make changes. Begin adjusting bedtime and wake-up time about 2–3 weeks before the first day of kindergarten.

Move bedtime earlier by 10–15 minutes every few nights, and wake them up earlier in the morning by the same increment. Gradually shifting helps their body clock adjust without a huge shock.

Step 2: Create a Predictable Bedtime Routine

Young children thrive on structure, and a predictable bedtime routine signals to their body and brain that it’s time to wind down. Aim for a 30–45 minute routine that might look like this:

Bath or shower — warm water helps lower body temperature afterward, which can promote sleepiness.
Pajamas and tooth brushing — keep it consistent every night.
Quiet time — reading a book together or listening to calm music.
Lights out — ideally in a dim, quiet room.

Avoid high-energy activities and bright lights in the hour before bedtime. That means no roughhousing, TV shows, or tablets right before sleep. The blue light from screens can delay melatonin production, making it harder for kids to fall asleep.

Step 3: Make the Bedroom Sleep-Friendly

Kindergarteners, like adults, sleep better in an environment that’s comfortable and free from distractions.

Keep it cool: A room temperature between 65–70°F (18–21°C) is ideal.
Dim the lights: Darkness signals the brain to release melatonin. A small nightlight is fine if your child prefers it.
Limit noise: White noise machines can help block out household or street sounds.
Choose comfortable bedding: Involve your child in picking sheets or a blanket they love — it makes bedtime more inviting.

Step 4: Watch the Afternoon Schedule

Once school starts, you may notice your child is more tired than usual in the afternoons. Some kindergarteners still need a short nap, especially during the early weeks. However, a late afternoon nap can push bedtime later, so try to limit naps to before 3:00 p.m.

If they’re not napping, build in quiet time after school — reading, drawing, or playing calmly in their room — to give them a mental and physical break before the rest of the day.

Step 5: Be Consistent on Weekends

It’s tempting to let bedtime slide on Friday or Saturday nights, but big swings in schedule can make Monday mornings much harder. Try to keep bedtime and wake-up time within an hour of the weekday schedule, even on weekends.

Step 6: Handle Bedtime Resistance Gently but Firmly

Some kids may resist the earlier bedtime, especially if they’re used to staying up later. Stay calm, stay consistent, and remember that part of your job is to set boundaries that protect their health.

Acknowledge feelings: “I know you don’t feel tired yet, but your body needs rest so you can have fun at school tomorrow.”
Offer choices within structure: “Do you want to read one book or two before lights out?”
Stick to the routine: Consistency builds habits faster than constant negotiation.

Step 7: Watch for Signs of Sleep Deprivation

Even with a good plan, some children may struggle to get enough sleep at first. Watch for signs such as:

Morning irritability or crying
Difficulty waking up
Meltdowns over small frustrations
Clumsiness or more frequent accidents
Trouble focusing during play or homework

If you notice these signs regularly, try moving bedtime even earlier. It’s not unusual for some kindergarteners to need a 7:00 p.m. bedtime, especially in the first few months of school.

Step 8: Stay Flexible and Supportive

Every child is different. Some adjust within a week, while others may take a month or more to settle into a new sleep pattern. Life events, growth spurts, and illness can all cause temporary setbacks.

The key is to treat sleep as a non-negotiable priority, while also giving your child space to adapt at their own pace. Celebrate small wins — like falling asleep without calling for you — and keep reinforcing the idea that sleep helps them be their best.

The Long-Term Payoff

Helping your kindergartener adjust to a healthy sleep routine is one of the best back-to-school gifts you can give them. Not only will it make their days happier and more productive, but it will also lay the foundation for lifelong sleep habits that support health, learning, and emotional well-being.

A well-rested child is better equipped to meet the exciting challenges of school — from making new friends to learning to read — with energy and joy. And as a parent, you’ll have more peace of mind knowing you’ve set them up for success, one bedtime story at a time.

This article was created using OpenAI’s ChatGPT on August 15, 2025 and it was personally reviewed and edited by Brandon Peters, M.D. to ensure its accuracy. This use of augmented intelligence in this way allows the creation of health information that can be trusted.